i need big advice!!!!!!

Off-topic
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so im 16 and

on friday i was at work and i got this girls phone number, she added me on myspace and i just veiwed her profile for the first time and she has a 1month old baby!! and she is 16 to

idk wat to do, like my mom wants to meet her cus i told her we were hanging out and i dont want her to meet my mom now lol,

I culd just block her and not answer her phone calls but she knows whwere i work.

i culd just get in and out but thats mean lol and im starting to think thats not the best idea lol

Advice needed lol

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What is it with you and under age pregnancy?

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IDK i dont like it tho, i reallly dont know wat to do.i wanna cry lol

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just role with it. its no big deal if your mom meets her. its not your kid… do know worries. If shes cool, shes cool. but i would not recomend “getting in then getting out” that always tends to end with bad juju. or another kid :astonished:

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yeh, but my mom is hardcor christian, tho, thats why i dont want her to meet her

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If you are not ready and/or wanting a relationship that includes caring, raising, supporting a baby and kinda being a father and having a family, then tell her that.

Maybe it seems mean, maybe it seems a bit immature to some people, but at your age and from what it seems like what you want, I think that would be the most mature thing to do.

Be nice about it though, but dont beat around the bush either.

Unless you do like her enough that her having a kid doesnt phase you, then go with it.

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and remeber, it dosent matter much what you mother think, just as long as you take and respect her opinion of the situation

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Agreed. Personally, I wouldn’t want to get into a relationship with someone who had a kid because that’s a lot more responsibility than a simple gilrfriend. I’m 20 and have way too much on in my life to be able to support a kid. Depends how much you like her though. If not, you just have to say you’re not ready for a relationship. You don’t necessarily have to tell het it’s cos she has a kid.

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In that case, surely, your mom will find it in herself to FORGIVE this poor girl her ‘mistake’?

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i culd care less about that, its how my mom wuld think of me, everyonc in a while she brings up wat happeend a while back, and i dont want her to be all like theres something wrong with my son, thats 2 grils now,

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She may need to rethink her ‘hardcore xtianity’ in that case.

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i dont get it.
xainity=insanity?

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Jerrick has it right

This seems like good advice. It may seem hard now, but you have taken on an adult situation. As chess grandmasters say, when you are behind, complicate. When you are ahead, simplify. Do not over think this. Do as Jerrick advises.
Be well,
william

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you know how xmas is short for christmas?

and I don’t see the big deal, can’t you just be mates with her?

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oooo

mates as in frends?

If so thats wat im thikning. ill probally call her tomorow and telll her that i wanna be frends insted.

Good advice Jerrick,
Thanks

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chicks are evil. i have mathematical proof!:smiley:

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If it’s that graph thing. You should post it. :smiley:

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its an equation type proof. i’ll post it tomorrow or something. right now i just dont wanna take the time. im lazy!:smiley:

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Hawo vanpaun. :smiley:

1) WHOA DUDE!!! :astonished:

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off the top of my head

women = time x money

time=money

therefore

women = money^2

money is the root of all evil i.e. money = evil^0.5

therefore women = evil

EDIT: i guess a line women = (evil^0.5)^2 in there might make the final substitution easier