holy crap! that’s pretty much it! it’s so true too. women=evil 
that is my life motto!
lol, i find that funny, since u ot a dragon ball z guy in ur avatar, and in ur sig thing by ur name u have on eof there moves
that’s just my dream. chicks being evil is my life motto
o ok lol
I definitely recommend being able to spell words like “too” and use capital letters before taking on a baby. 
But then again, you had to go on her MySpace page to find out she had this baby? It doesn’t sound like she was hiding anything though. It sounds more like you barely know each other, and she just gave you her number. She’s not hiding the fact that she has a baby, or it wouldn’t be on her MySpace page.
Is a 16 y.o. girl with a 1-month old baby even looking for a boyfriend? That’s something to think about. Usually new moms are very focused on their new babies. But this new mom is still a kid herself, so hopefully she has someone helping her with the parenting.
You seem to barely know her, “having just gotten her number.” Why was it you wanted to cry?
If your mom’s Christian views are front and center, she should be proud that this girl decided to have her baby instead of an abortion. That doesn’t put her on the moral high ground compared to you though, because I don’t think you were involved in that decision with your girlfriend from before.
As is almost always, always the case, be honest with her. If you like her, just tell her you do but you don’t want to get emotionally involved because you’re not ready to take on a parental role. Then you’ll soon know if she’s looking for a friend or a daddy.
I don’t think that’s true until you live in your own place. Until then, you’re a minor living under your parents’ roof and it matters a lot more what they think. It’s tough being a minor if you want to do “adult” things. Being a friend is perfectly safe though, and as long as you don’t get emotionally attached you might get some good education for when you maybe become a dad in the future. When you’re ready, that is.
OOH, SNAP!
the flaw ofc is that women take time and money i.e. women = time + money
which means women = 2 (evil)^0.5, not so catchy
maestro, i am robbing the caring continuum for future use
My advice: Get to know the girl better without starting a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
It may be that she’s looking for Dad for #2. If so, that sounds like a situation to avoid at this stage in your life. And, if that’s the case, don’t be afraid to tell her that.
It may be that she is so ditzy or apathetic that it is just meaningless to her how many babies she pops out or who the dads are or why. That sounds like another situation to be avoided.
Or it may be that she’s a fairly normal girl that has a 1-month old baby. If that means you’re not interested in even being a friend, there’s probably not a good way to get it across, but she’ll probably figure it out on her own, too. Things do change when you have a kid, and your social life is one of those things that changes. (And if it really is only because of your mom, tell her that, but don’t just use that as an excuse.) If you’re still interested in knowing her, but not sure how to work it with your mom, I’d say the key is “very slowly”. Get to know her better so when your mom asks questions, you’ll have answers. It may be a lot easier to have her as a friend than as a girlfriend. If she’s been a friend for a while, it’d be a lot easier to for her to become a girlfriend than just starting from scratch. You might even consider asking your mom what she would do in your situation. (This is probably more likely to work than you think it will, if approached in just the right way.)
Right offhand, I can think of two women I know that had kids when young and unmarried. One is the mother of my daughter’s two friends. She’s an okay person, but her life has kind of been a soap opera, too. The other gave her daughter up for adoption (this was years ago) and only got to know her daughter when she was grown. But I know that lady from church; she’s a first class person, too. The moral is, you can’t really discern a whole lot from the baby alone. In the case of this girl, I’d say it’s more important where she’s going than where she’s been.
By the way, if the girl is a typical mom, the baby will be a big part of her conversation; don’t be afraid to ask her about it.
Whatever. I’m sure he could care less.
did nobody read the thread title?
JUST BE HONEST WITH BOTH HER AND YOUR MOM ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT HER BEING PREGNANT. IT’D BE BETTER IF YOU TOLD YOUR MOM NOW THAN IF YOUR MOM FOUND OUT LATER. AND IT’D BE BETTER TO BE HONEST WITH THE GIRL BEFORE YOU GET INTO AN EVEN WORSE SITUATION.
i think in this case that is technically accurate
Any update?
That’s a bit harsh. I have found that some women are evil, but all women called Emma are evil. I heard this theory bloody ages ago, and have since found it to be true.
All Emmas are evil.
T.
Raphael has a daughter named Emma. I imagine there are times when he might agree with that. 
But overall, from what I know, R is helplessly, hopelessly, wildly in love with his daughter.
i was about to say, don’t you have a kid on the way??
cause if you do, that’s kinda shadey bro.
Chase
If I were you, I would just chill with her a bit and then if you end up liking her enough then just go for it. Otherwise just be friends. Say you want to “take it slow”. Really, I could not say what I would do unless I knew the girl but just kinda try it out a bit more and then decide.