Whats the dif between true Love and a Crush?
True love is when he/she loves you unconditionally, with all your flaws, quriks and baggage. The “crush” comes after you find out she’s a golddigger!
Serioulsy though, true love [usually] doesn’t fade away, and you love that person to their very soul; a crush is temporary, and usually just physical…not that there’s anything wrong with that!
CRAP. I think im in love 
dude, ur 14,
chances r u r not in love, just get with this girl, if things work out then good for you, but dont put all your hope and all ur love into one person.
I mean, ask her out and have fun with her, but just remeber, ur to young to be in love, i dont plan on falling in love till im atleast 30 lol
Thats what ive been thinking but. Its been going on for months. she lives about 3000 km’s from me.
Months? Trust me, it can go on for years, you can think shes in love with you, and even make those big in-the-future type plans, and then she breaks up with you, and the same can happen with you lossing feelings for her.
The thing I have learned about love, is to let it be natural and fall into place on its own. Its easier that way.
A crush can end. True love is completely beyond ones control and stays forever.
Thanks for the info. Ive had crushes before but this just seems diffirent on a huge level.
Oh yeah, true love always involves constant thought of “the one”. Random things triggering thoughts about him/her throughout each day, all the time. Or just no thought on anything else.
well ask her out,
wait does she live in a differnt state?
If she says yes, watever u do, dont get all seroius and start talking about marriage, and babies, ect,
cus u will scare her probally and she will dump u
I live in NSW and she lives in cairns thats 3000+ km’s $450 to fly there.
At this point I think about her so much that I dont want to go out with her because it will end in us breaking up (99% chance at least). If A crush is this. ITS BIG
At your age, something called puppy love happens (I guess it can happen with older people, but its most popular in younger kids around 12-16). This is when your lack of experience with love makes you think you are completely in love with a person. You almost feel obsessed with them. All you do it think about them. Its very much like love, but after a while, Like I said above, it fades, you then realise, this isnt a person you love anymore and it breaks apart. The outcome can be anything, both of you hating eachother, one hating, the other wanting it back, and yadda yada. It gets complicated.
Im not sure why its called puppy love really, cause to me, it just someones first love.
Which brings the point, you can end up falling in love with a lot of people, hopefully not all at once. But just because you love, lose them, its not over, and it may take a while (long long while for lots) to find that true “The one” love.
Just be careful. Love can be the greatest thing ever to happen to you and for you to feel, and it can also be the complete opposite and it can literally destroy a human.
Good thing you can come to a group of unicyclist for all your relationship advice. 
Thanks Jerrick, that pretty much explains what i got now. 
unicyclists are great, there so helpful cause they have so much patience XD
Thanks everyone.
Wow
You should get a REALLY big coker
I dont think id be great for advice
But wait and see if it lasts…
I believe the word you’re looking for is enfatuation. Looks like love, feels like love, can turn in to love, but doesn’t last like love does.
Ok, We will see where it goes. I told her on tuesday that I really liked her. Didn’t say love incase it scared her off. Now we have awkward short conversations
But n’how I almost feel like Its growing to something lol. That sounded suss but, it feels as if its getting stronger and feels like something will happen at a certain point no idea if that makes any sense but its confusing me to the shit
PS: What is a coker? Is it a name for a uni haven’t been able to figure it out
Coker were the original brand of 36" unicycles. The term is also used in genreal for any 36" unicycle.
ahh, I see. Thanks 
I love how most of the replies were from teenagers, whom have little to no life experience in what actual love is, only an idealized notion of what it is based on the relationships they’ve observed in their lives (both real and on the movie screen).
I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, a year of which has been long distance. Is it love? Long-term infatuation? Hell if I know, I don’t really have the experience to make that call. I just know I still like her 
Is there one definition of love? What is love?
(Yeah, I opened that can of worms…)
In your specific case, it sounds like kington99 may have hit the nail on the head. But who am I to say?
Love is like something completely unknown and that we probably wont know completely ever lol. I Almost like this girl to much. and its confusing me so much