That’s a terrifying picture.
By the way, sarcasm, by itself, is not benign. Scroll up for the definition I posted. Better yet, I’m going to paste it here. Also, sarcasm often has a grain of truth in it. Which is why it can hurt, even when it wasn’t meant to. But “sacrasm in jest” is another matter.
sar·casm, n.
- harsh or bitter derision or irony.
- a sharply ironical taunt; sneering or cutting remark
or, from dictionary.com –
- A cutting, often ironic remark intended to wound.
- A form of wit that is marked by the use of sarcastic language and is intended to make its victim the butt of contempt or ridicule.
I’m not trying to start a war here. I’m going to shut up in a minute. And I’m sorry for polluting Andrew’s thread with all of this. This started when I came to Andrew’s defense. But if you are going to kid around with people you don’t ACTUALLY know, you have to be really careful. And if you fail to communicate effectively, don’t blame the reader! That’s like a comedian whose jokes aren’t funny – and he blames the audience for not laughing. The onus is on you.
I’ve been trying to reduce my dependence on smiley faces – and rely solely on my command of the English language. But either way, whenever I kid with somebody, I am very careful that it won’t be taken the wrong way (and I recently failed, prompting someone to PM me with an apology that wasn’t necessary). Adding a smiley is the easiest way to say “just kidding, my friend.”
There is a wonderful spirit alive in these forums – of friendship, camaraderie, and unity. Someone recently compared us to the mountain biking newsgroups. We compared favorably, being a fun and friendly group, utterly laking in arrogance and egotism found in the other group.
People are different and react differently. That is an inescapable fact of life. Be glad we are all not just like you. Our diversity is what makes this place so interesting and fun. If I sound like a prudish, preachy jerk right now, sorry! I don’t think I am. But I stand by my convictions. And I thank EVERY ONE OF YOU for making these forums great – including, of course, (I’m steering back on topic now) – one of our major and valued contributors – Andrew.
Where’s Your Other Wheel,
uni57 (Dave)