Not sure about a couple of those…
Dana sounds definitely female to me, and the female form of Joe (for Joanne, Joanna, Josephine etc) is normally without the e.
A couple more gender-ambiguous names I can think of are
Bobby (Robert or Roberta),
Andy (Andrew, Andrea),
Chris (Christopher, Christine),
Alex (Alexander, Alexandra, Alexis),
Charly (Charles, Charlotte, although often spelt -ie if female),
Stevie (Stephen, Stephanie),
Alice (mostly female except Cooper - sorry :o)
There must be loads more…
And a couple of international ones that can be confusing in English, like Jan and Jean (male in German and French respectively, female in English, but pronounced differently so perhaps not a great example).
Rob
EDIT: Found a list here, but some (most) of them are pretty weird.
lot of others like Claude, …
(BTW I am always confused when sending mail to the U.S. because I often do not know wether I am writing to a “she” or a “he”)
Perhaps Dana is an American thing…
Leslie is a good one - hadn’t thought of that (although it’s become mostly a female name now, like Lindsay (I knew a male Lindsay - he used his second name most of the time!))
That’s an awesome name you’ve got. I love the name Dave (my name), but my close second choice would be Dane. Enjoy your name. I hope you really like it a lot. I know I would.
Thanks, I do appreciate it. I have met a grand total of 2 other Dane’s, and one is on the east coast. So for the most part I stand out (Not that being a white man, with dreadlocks, playing a ukulele and riding a unicycle doesn’t make me stand out… but you get the point)
I also like that my first and last name are both 4 letters, I like it when things even out like that.
If I was going to be a female my parents were going to name me Tenaya. Which nowadays people would confuse for a black girls name.
My actual name, Charles, doesn’t work, but the softer version, Charlie, is used by both genders, and I’ve heard of girls who were called Chuck, but that’s a bit unusual.
I’m just bringing it up 'cuz it’s a pretty common name and no one else has mentioned it yet.
Besides Rob, of course
IT’S USUALLY SPELLED -IE FOR BOTH GENDERS
…and -ey is common, too…