I hesitated about posting the following. The two stories are a bit of family history, really don’t pertain to anyone else and are somewhat personal, but they are cute love stories for those who like love stories and they fit in with the U.P. theme. The long and short of it is Mom’s mom married Dad’s uncle and that’s how Mom and Dad met. Grandma is 97 years old and still living with Mom & Dad. The first story is from Grandma and the second is from Mom.
A KNOCK AT THE DOOR
Finally, it was time for my two weeks vacation! It seemed as though it would never come. I hadn’t thought much about where I would go. Then my friend invited me to go with her to the town of Manistique in the upper peninsula of Michigan to visit her sister. We lived in Aurora, Illinois so it would be quite a long drive, but there was nothing to keep me from going. My husband of twenty-six years passed away in 1955 and my daughter, Idella, was away at college.
We arrived in Manistique and began to get things ready for a Fourth of July picnic. On the morning of the Fourth we awoke to find it was storming. It rained and the wind blew very hard, even knocking down a tree in the front yard. No picnic for us. It turned colder and we sat around the kitchen table drinking coffee, trying to keep warm.
Then there was a knock at the door. Who would be coming in all this rain? It was Claude Edwards, a long-time friend of the sisters. He lived in Newberry, Michigan, a small town about an hour’s drive away. He had heard there was going to be a parade in Manistique so he drove down to see it. He stayed all day until late Saturday evening. We convinced him that since it was so late, he might as well stay overnight and go to church with us the next day. Sunday morning the sun was shining and we all went to church. After church, Claude took my friend and me to see the beautiful Tahquamenon Falls north of Newberry.
We stayed in Manistique all week and on Sunday, Claude came again. In the afternoon Claude and I took a ride out to a lake and walked around it. I loved the smell of the fresh pine-scented air. He treated me to a nice chicken supper at a little café nearby. Claude’s wife had passed away in 1956 and he was lonely so he asked if I would write to him.
The next morning, my friend and I said our goodbyes and left for home. I felt an emptiness inside having to leave this beautiful countryside and my new-found male companion. After I arrived home, Claude and I corresponded frequently by letter. I enjoyed my job as a payroll clerk, but I could hardly wait to rush home each evening to get the mail. One day I received a letter from Claude that said, “When can we ever have a date? Maybe we could meet half-way some weekend.” So we met at Green Bay, Wisconsin, at J. C. Penny’s. We drove to a park and as we were sitting on a park bench, he put his arms around me and kissed me. We could hear children laughing and giggling. I guess they thought it was funny to see old people smooching. Finally he said, “It’s just too hard making plans to see you. Will you marry me?” So we planned to get married in the fall in Newberry.
We were married in October of 1958 and I began my new life in a small town. Claude was such a people person. He seemed to know everyone in the entire town. We had lots of friends and would meet in each other’s homes for a meal or a card game. No matter if the town is large or small, friendships are to be treasured.
I found out that this town enjoyed a very unique pastime in the summer months…that of visiting the village dump at dusk. Claude and I would drive out to the dump and park our car along with several other cars facing the headlights into the dump and wait expectantly. Soon the black bears would come out to feed bringing their cubs with them. Some of the tourists would get out of their cars with cameras in hand but the local townspeople knew better. They had a healthy respect for these wild animals.
I loved the fall color season in Newberry. The leaves were a mix of reds, oranges, and yellows interspersed with tall green pines and white birch. It was a breathtaking sight to behold. Sunday afternoons were reserved for leisurely drives through the forest.
Our favorite pastime was hunting and fishing. We owned a small camping trailer that we would take to a campgrounds near the river. We had a rubber raft and would spend two or three hours floating down the river, fishing and enjoying each other’s company. I would also go bird hunting and deer hunting with my husband. I never shot a deer but Claude would get one every fall.
After twenty-one years of marriage, my husband, Claude, passed away in 1979. I went to live with my daughter, Idella, who had married Claude’s nephew, Jack. Today, at age 97, I am still active. I am a volunteer at the local hospital (crocheting baby caps for newborns), play the piano and have my very own computer. But my fondest memories are still the ones of my life in the small town of Newberry, Michigan.
Esther Myrtle Edwards
SMALL TOWN BLISS
It was 1958 and my second year in college. Although my goal was an education, my secondary goal sometimes overshadowed the first – that of finding “Mr. Right.” My popular roommate would fix me up from time to time and we double-dated, but nothing ever seemed to work out. It was Christmas time and I debated what to do for the holidays. Since the death of my father, my mother had been lonely and had since re-married and moved out of state.
In the mail that day, I received bus fare money from my mother so that I could come to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan to be with her and her new husband for Christmas. Did I want to spend two weeks in Newberry, Michigan, a tiny town of 2600 people where I knew no one? I was raised near Chicago where there were always places to go and things to do. What in the world would I do in a small town with three feet of snow on the ground? Since everyone else was leaving the dorm for the holidays, I decided going to Michigan was my only option.
I arrived on a Friday evening after a seventeen-hour trip by Greyhound bus. Mother was equally perplexed as to what to do with me for entertainment. Her new nephew, Jack, was home from college and lived next door, so she asked him to do her a favor and show me around town. With the ultimate small town courtesy, he assured her that he would see to it that I had a good time. He told her this even before he had met me.
Jack and I first met when his mother invited all of us over for homemade pizza. Jack was wearing a white bib apron, his hands were deep in pizza dough and I quickly noticed the light shining from gorgeous blue eyes. I was mesmerized. We had casual conversation and then he invited me to come the next day to the drug store in town where he was working as a “soda jerk” during the holidays. Upon my visit, he fixed me a chocolate malt and we stared into each other’s eyes until other customers needed his attention.
The following day was our first official date. Jack would not tell me where he was taking me other than to caution me to dress warmly. He picked me up in his car and we drove through the countryside. The sun glistened on top of the snow and the freshly plowed road was tree-lined with tall evergreens, also heavy with snow. I began to fall in love with this beautiful winter wonderland.
We arrived at the top of a hill where he parked the car on a side road. He retrieved a toboggan from the trunk and we trudged through the snowy woods until we came to a clearing and a steep valley. I had never been tobogganing before so this was going to be a unique experience. I sat behind Jack on the toboggan and held on to him for dear life as we raced to the bottom of the hill and sped out onto a large clearing. It was better than any Chicago roller coaster! As I stepped off the toboggan, my feet plunged deeply into the snow and I noticed that there was slush under the top covering of snow. I questioned my new date about this and he nonchalantly informed me that I was standing in the middle of a lake. These were definitely new experiences for a city girl. The climb back up the hill was difficult because our legs sunk into the snow up past our knees, so Jack took my hand and helped pull me up. I could feel a warm tingling in my hand even through the thick snow-covered mittens.
Our next date was a trip to a popular tourist attraction about sixteen miles North of town…the Taquamenon Falls. We walked the trails through the woods to the Falls. It was exciting to think I had made the good choice to come here rather than sit alone in my dorm room, but even more exciting were the butterflies I felt in my stomach as I walked next to this tall, handsome Yooper. (A Yooper is someone from the Upper Peninsula of Michigan or the UP…hence the name Yooper.) The Taquamenon Falls took my breath away. They are nick-named Root Beer Falls because of the water’s amber color - the result of leaching of tanic acid from the cedar and hemlock swamps that feed the river. Half of the water coming over the falls had frozen into giant amber-colored icicles. I was fast becoming “hooked”…hooked on the countryside and hooked on Jack.
Our final date before I had to go back to college was to a coffee shop where we spent two hours sipping coffee and comfortably conversing on a multitude of topics. (I found out later that Jack does not even like coffee). I was impressed that everyone who walked in seemed to know my date by name. When we got up to leave, we both just walked out, not even thinking to pay the bill. This clearly demonstrated to me that Jack was just as smitten as I was with our new relationship. He went back the next day and sheepishly paid the owner what was owed.
Well, that was a long time ago and we have now been happily married for forty-five years. It is actually no surprise that we ended up in matrimony. Jack is a caring, honest, generous and handsome man with a boat load of small-town values and since my mother married his uncle, that also makes Jack my kissin’ cousin!
Idella Pearl Edwards