I know that Sapim makes a tandem spoke that is 13g at the hub, and then butts to 14g. Wheelsmith definitely makes a 13g spoke, and so does DT. you probably can’t use the DT alpine sproke, due to the butting, for a trials wheel, but it should work for a MUni wheel, but you might need to lace 4X. Any bike store should be able to get 13g spokes easily.
However, more of a problem might be the cutting of the spokes. I doubt that these companies sell any spokes, stock that come in the length required for trials wheels. You should search around for a shop that has a Phil Wood spoke cutting machine. I know Darren has one, but you might get lucky and find a local shop with one. If the shop has one of these machines, you should be able to get the correct spokes no problem at all. Just make sure they have the phil wood machine, and not the park tool spoke threader.
As far as strength goes, you should be fine with 14g spokes, as long as they are high quality, and have a rolled threads, and are well built. (these are much more of factors to wheel strength, than spoke thickness)
Anyways, I think its pretty lame that all you guys are complaining about tensioning your wheels. If a wheel has proper tension, it will be stronger than a wheel without proper tension REGARDLESS of the rim. In theory all that A rim needs to accomplish is the hold the tire in place, and support sufficient tension from the spokes. As it is, the KH rims are overbuilt for what they need to accomplish, however, for riders who are too lazy to tension their wheels, then any rim will flatspot.
If you have one loose spoke, then the entire wheels is compromised. What people need to understand is that spoked wheels are dynamic, allways moving when different forces are applied. When one spoke is loose, then the force in that area is put directly on the rim, instead of being supported by the spokes, as it should be.
Anyways, If your serious about unicycling, do some research on how to build, and maintain wheels properly. Its especially important in unicycling since we always hop in the same place in the wheel.