im gonna be a dad

From what I can tell, this thread has already been won by the above post. Why are you guys still posting?

yes it is ill have to tell her to do that

make sure you tell us the outcome, hope it works out for you one way or another

yeh ill let you guys know wat happens

Dude, condoms tear and rip and get little holes that you probably don’t even notice.
You have to be really, really carefull.

So Brendon, I wish you the best of luck. It could be a real set-back because you and your girlfriend will have to support each other and the baby.
As much as I hate the concept, you might want to consider abortion. It’s a very, very serious, emotional thing. But whatever you decide, I’m sending you guys positive vibes and love.
Good Luck.

Maybe birth control would’ve worked better. It’s over 99% accurate. The only thing is, you have to remember to take it. But you don’t have to worry about it breaking. Sorry to hear the situation. It sounds tough and I hope you guys figure it out. Kutos to you for sticking by her and wanting to work out something with her rather than dumping the baby on her and taking off. Which happens a lot. All the best…

hope it all works out man… if I were a religious person I’d pray for you that it was a false alarm, since I’m not i’ll just hope REALLY hard…

can you get birth control if your under 18?

I think so. You might be able to do it without a parent permission. But don’t quote me on that. You’re best bet is to go see a Dr.

do you have to get a subcription or can u just buy them?

A Dr. needs to perscribe it. I think your best bet would to be to hold off on sex, though…

1st things 1st, see a doctor. Then everything will be explained by them. :smiley:

Here you can get birth control (Australia) under 18 but America I do not know. You should be able to so long as you are legally allowed to have sex under 18 or 21 or whatever it is.

There are many options avaliable if she is preganant and to think all of them through. All of them.

yeh definetly im done with going all the way for a long long time,

but now that shes pregnant i gess we can do it with out condoms now lol jk

Brendon,

Remember, any guy can be a father but it takes someone special to be a dad.

Wow, a kid at 16. I hope this is a scam.

Think this: will my baby have a nice time when it grows up? Will I be able to provide, and educate it? If no, perhaps abortion is the most human option.

You’re a pretty screwed up kid if you are doing ecstasy and screwing with just a condom. Before you know it, you will have a family of six and be the worst crack addict father ever. Your momma’s very religious, yet she has done such a poor job raising you. I’m glad that if any situation like this arose I could tell my mom.

Maybe praying won’t help this time.

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abort, that kid will not be raised in as good of a home as it could have.

There is another option. There are lots of people out there that can’t have children and would love to adopt a healthy child. If abortion isn’t an alternative, giving a child up for adoption is a loving choice.

Well, if you feel you can’t give the kid a good life, abortion isn’t the only option.
There’s adoption as well. I’d only say abort if it was dangerous to have the baby any other way.
EDIT: what the guy above me said.

Women miss their periods for things other than being pregnant, you know that right?

I think after your big attention grabbing self talking about Ecstasy, I hope she isn’t pregnant, I hope she was just trying to scare you.

I don’t know her but someone like you shouldn’t be able to ruin her life by getting her pregnant.