im gonna be a dad

soooo i just got this call from my gf like an hour ago, she says she missed her period and she thinks shes pregnant,

this sucks my life is pretty much over now, i dont know how we can affford it, theres no way my mom can afford to take care of it and my gf’s family isnt very rich, im just debating how im gonna tell my mom, she is really religous and stuff soooo i dont know what to do. Im thinking im gonna have to drop out of HS to help pay for it :frowning:

Congratulations!

I wish I got there first.

C’est la vie.

But honestly, you’re gona have to stop spending ya money on ecstacy.

Menopause?
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Just tell her to get an abortion or summat.

i dont know wat a summat is but there is know way i wuld make her get an abortion, i honestly dont think i wuld want her to even if she did want to, i wuldnt wanna put her threw that

Summat= slang for ‘something’

Wow! Are you really only 16? There could be quite a life-changing decision you and your gf will have to possibly make. I wish you both the best.:slight_smile:

yeh im 16

Good luck.

Are you regretting things that you have done in your past recently?

My friend Rocky who has been married for a few months now got his wife pregnant, but now he is wishing he never smoked cigarettes or drank as much alcohol as he has, and would of managed his life better.

cringes at the word abortion uhh…no

What you can do is try for a job during HS, and i think ur gf is gonna have to do the same. youll both be workin ur ass’s off though. But its obviously too late to help that. See how that works. How many more years of HS do you have left? I guess ur parents and stuff could help you with taking care of it, untill you get out of HS if you dont have too long to go.

IDK what else to say. Good luck…and condoms are only like .50 cents i think.

well were you wearing a condom? If not why the hell not?

yeh i was it just didnt work this time

were both juniors

pretty much

Just to make sure, I wasn’t really talking about the sex, but just anything else, or the sex if you regret that too.

Having a child is going to be very life-changing.

wha!? how does a condom just not work? shouldn’t they have to go through some testing so they work…like say…100% of the time? hmmm…Its like they work 98% of the time…and the other 2% you just…HAVE A BABY!

i was talking about sex, i regret that alot, hmmmmm thats pretty much it

maybe i will get lucky and she will have been cheating on me :smiley: lol jk

Nah sometimes they break for no reason. I’ve had one break before but I dont know why.

But as you say the other 2% or whatever it is sucks because POOF Baby!

At least you were wearing a condom.

You never know she might not even be pregnant and for some unknown reason missed her period hmm.

hmmm…well maybe she’s just late on her period. Id have other testing done to see FOR SURE. you might be worrying yourself for nothing…idk.Have her Go to a doctor and see for sure.

That’s a good idea that Musketman said Brendan. If you want to be 100% sure that is.