Well, thereās thatā¦
Why is it always the neck? Broken necks are relatively rare in this sport!
What sports does your wife do, if I may inquire? Always looking for ways to shave a few more years offā¦ (no, really for my wife)
She always wants me to tell her where Iām riding if I go alone. This is a sensible idea since I like the āinterestingā trails. She requests a call or text at the start and the end of the ride, so she knows Iām okay, or otherwise knows where to send the search party.
Thatās good advice. Just keep working on that 36er freemount! Though those big wheels can be a pain to fly withā¦
Ouch! She doesnāt seem happy about your unicycling at all. Has she said why? Possible reasons:
- She's authentically worried about you getting hurt
- She's worried about what others will think; and apparently how this will reflect on what they'll think of her
- She objects to all the time you're spending on your new hobby, which is time not spent with her
- She feels intimidated by what you're doing, believing she could never do it and therefore feeling left out and/or abandoned
- She is worried about your developing dimentia problem
- She thinks you'll use it as an excuse to not do chores
But that list, as a whole, is very concerning. Have the two of you been married for long? If so, itās a pretty harsh reaction. Let her know you still love her, and you will continue to mop and vacuum.
Or seek counseling.
As for my wife:
She married a guy she already knew had a serious unicycling habit. I had already been riding over 20 years, done it for a living, rode in many countries and on many stages, won many unicycling titles and helped run the big unicycling organizations, and accumulated more than 30 unicycles by then. But she was still, justifiably jealous of the amounts of time I would spend on my hobby/sport/lifestyle. At the same time, she would travel with me to many big unicycle conventions, and sheās been to more Unicons than most unicyclists. Going to those allowed us to have fun vacations (separate from the conventions) in China, Japan, and all over Europe! Next year weāre going to Grenoble (Unicon 20), followed by exploring more of France and possibly Italy, Switzerland, etc. We (now) have a big garage with a high ceiling, so for the most part, the unicycles are all off the floor! She is the best person I could possibly have found.
BTW, for you Aussies, we will be in Sydney in January, where David Buchanan from Canberra is trying to help arrange a morning unicycle ride somewhere in the sydney area for interested riders, on or around January 7. Iāll need to borrow one if this can be set up. Would love to meet you. Bring your spouses/significant others!