You’re not looking at the big picture. It sounds like you live in a poor area. Depending on the details in your area, this means lots of families with hard-working parents that may have multiple jobs to keep food on the table. Not much time for the kids, especially if it’s a single parent. Other families may have unemployed parents who don’t do anything, but also may not be equipped to teach their kids much of anything. Still other families may have parents who are addicts or abusers, who do crime to make money, most of which goes to buy more drugs or alcohol. In many cases these homes are what you would call a toxic environment. For many kids, school is the safest, cleanest place they get to go all week. Is this your fault? No, but they are still members of your community, maybe your close neighbors.
Side note:
Yesterday my sister-in-law brought home a boy (19) who has just entered the services of STEP. He was raised by a drug-addicted mother who provided him with next to nothing, ever. My sister-in-law bought him some new clothes because the only clothes he had were disgusting, stinky dirty. He was amazed to see a suitcase full of new clothes for him to wear to school. “I’ve never had new clothes,” he said.
Now let’s use that guy as an example. He’s developmentally disabled, but let’s ignore that for the moment and consider his upbringing (somewhere in Northern California). Is he really going to get much out of a bunch of math and science classes? On the one hand yes, but on the other hand, if the main thing on his mind is where’s his next meal going to come from, there are other things a school might be able to do for him.
The population at your school probably runs the gamut from whole, healthy families to destitute, parent-less families. Your school probably tries to do a variety of things, within its limited abilities, to best service that group of students.
So what if the school doesn’t pick up the slack? At age 18 or earlier, they spit out a person who might not have the basic skills to get a job. Where are they going to end up? Basically on public assistance of some kind (your tax dollars at work) or in jail (more of your tax dollars at work). If the school can help get them to a place where they can survive on their own, without costing you anything, I think they’re doing the right thing.
But the devil is in the details. What was so bad about doing a few hours of community service again? Part of going to school is to experience different things. Your school is much better-equipped to hook people up with community service programs than your parents (or non-parents) are. You get experience from it. Write a paper about it when it’s all done.