I feel out of place to answer this. it is difficult to define an average Mormon, and I do not want to speak for others. However, I personally have some issues with some of the information in the Book of Mormon. As your examples have shown, there are various holes in the scripture. Another hole, for example, is that the Book of Mormon references horses. Horses are not native to America; they were introduced by the white man.
On the other hand, it is incredible and near impossible for a teenage farm boy to create such a complex book all on his own. It is incredible that the Book of Mormon has held up as well as it has, and I have great doubt that Joseph Smith had that kind of natural talent and wisdom. Not only that, but why would he want to deal with all of the discrimination? Joseph Smith went through a lot of crap to stand up for The Book of Mormon. He eventually lost his life because of it.
So, when I read and study the Book of Mormon, I tend to see bits and pieces that I think maybe Joseph Smith inserted himself, and other parts do seem legitimate to me. But really, I have no definite knowledge of what is true and what is not, so I tend to not worry about whether the stories in the Book of Mormon literally and actually happened. Instead, I take them for their value as lessons, and learn from them to apply them to my own life and point of view. I accept the scientific fact that we have, but also stay open to the idea that we have more to discover. Maybe there is some scientific explanation for the Book of Mormon and we just haven’t discovered it. Nobody knows for certain. There may be some extinct Native American tribe that does match the description according to our faith. I simply cannot say that the Book of Mormon is impossible, because there is no definite way to prove that.
that has a lot to do with it, but there are many other reasons as well. one reason is that there are no paid positions in our church. None at all. It is all purely volunteer. %100 of the church’s money goes towards helping those in need, buying supplies, building churches and temples, and everything else the church spends money on. I have no Idea how much money is in the treasury, but I do know that the LDS church owns a bunch of land in case of emergency, and I know there is very minimal corruption (none to my knowledge), and church members are supposed to give %10 of everything they make to the church.
Another reason is organization. I can go to church on Sunday out here on the tiny island I live on, call up my family the next day, and we can talk about our lesson together because it is the same lesson everywhere. There is a set curriculum, if you will, in our Sunday school, which guarantees that you can go to church and worship virtually anywhere in the world, and you get the same knowledge as anywhere else.
Another thing I enjoy about our church, is that we have no “preacher.” the church members themselves prepare lessons for our equivalent of mass. I have given several talks to my branch of church members, and I am only 18 years old. This forces people to study the scripture. You learn more by teaching than you do by listening. This also evens out the ideas of everyone. It provides for many points of view, and many different lessons to learn from.
Also, our church teaches that you can live with your family in heaven. You stay married for eternity, you belong to your parents for eternity, and your kids belong to you for eternity. This is the main reason why family is so important to us.